Sunday, August 21, 2011

花花世界花家姐

Dear Journal,
Today, finally completed with 花花世界花家姐, this is a nice drama.... telling us that 幸福很简单.. actually poor can be 幸福 too... I like the part tat 花丽珠 told 蒋奕 that she want to break off with him... and she told him that she can't born to normal baby...

from the start.. even 蒋奕's grandpa dun agree with the relationship.... make me feel a bit sour... =( it telling me two person can't be together... =(

and sometimes we like to take thing for granted too... 蒋奕 treated 花丽珠 but in the end he fall in love with her...


Friday, August 19, 2011

圣严法师108自在语

提升人品

1.需要的不多,想要的太多...

2.知恩报恩为先,利人便是利己...

3.尽心尽力第一,不争你我多少...

4.慈悲没有敌人,智慧不起烦恼...

5.忙人的时间最多,勤劳健康最好...

6.布施的人有福,行善的人快乐...

7.心量要大,自我要小...

8.要能放下,才能提起.提放自如,是自在人...

9.识人识已识进退,时时身心平安;知福惜福多培福,处处广结善缘...

10.提得起放得下,年年吉祥如意;用智慧种福田,日日都是好日...



11.身心常放松,逢人面带笑,放松能使我们身心健康,带笑容易增进彼此友谊...

12.话到口边想一想,讲话之前慢半拍,不是不说,而是要惜言慎语...

13.在生活中,不妨养成:{能有,很好;没有,也没关系}的想法,便能转苦为乐,便会比较自在了...

14.四安:安心,安身,安家,安业...

15.四要:需要,想要,能要,该要...

16.四感:感恩,感谢,感化,感动...

17.四它:面对它,接受它,处理它,放下它...

18.四福:知福,惜福,培福,种福...

19:能要,该要的才要;不能要,不该要的绝对不要...

20.感恩能使我们成长,报恩能助我们成就...



21.感谢给我们机会,顺境,逆境,皆是恩人...

22.遇到好事,要随喜,赞叹,鼓励,并且虚心学习...

23.少批评,多赞美,是避免造口业的好方法...

24.平常心就是最自在,最愉快的心...

25.踏实地走一步路,胜过说一百句空洞的漂亮语...

26.知道自己的缺点俞多,成长的速度俞快,对自己的信心也就俞坚定...

27.多听多看少说话,快手快脚慢用钱...

28.唯有体验了艰苦的境遇,才会有精进奋发的心...

29.踏踏实实做人,心胸要广大;稳稳当当做事,著眼宜深远...



享受工作

30.忙而不乱,累而不疲...

31.忙得快乐,累得欢喜...

32.{忙}没关系,不{烦}就好...

33.工作要赶不要急,身心要松下要紧...

34.应该忙中有序的赶工作,不要紧张兮兮的抢时间...

35.不要以富贵贱论成败得失,只要能尽心尽力来自利利人...

36.任劳者必堪任怨,任事者必遭批评.怨言之下有慈忍,批评之中藏金玉...

37.随遇而安,随缘奉献...

38.成功的三部曲是:随顺因缘,把握因缘,创造因缘...

39.见有机缘宜把握,没有机会要营造,机缘未熟不强求...

40.人生的起起落落,都是成长的经验...

41.用智慧处理事,以慈悲关怀人...

42.以智慧时时修正偏差,以慈悲处处给人方便...

43.慈悲心俞重,智慧俞高,烦恼也就俞少...

44.面对许多的情况,只管用智慧外理事,以慈悲对期人,而不担心自己的利害得失,就不会有烦恼了...

45.心随境转是凡夫;境随心转是圣贤...

46.大鸭游出大路,小鸭游出小路,不游就没有路...

47.山不转路转,路不转人转,人不转心转...

48.{精进}不等于拼命,而是努力不懈...

49.船过水无痕,鸟飞不留影,成败得失都不会引起心情的波动,那就是自在解脱的大智慧...

50.给人方便等于给自己方便...

51.甘愿吃明亏,是仁者;受辱吃暗亏,是愚蠢...

52.压力通常来自对身外事物过于在意,同时也过于在意他人的评断...

53.用感恩的心,用报恩的心,来做服务的工作,便不会感到倦怠与疲累...

54.随时随地心存感激,以财力,体力,智慧,心力,来做一切的奉献...



平安人生

55.生命的意义是为了服务,生活的价值是为了奉献...

56.人生的目标,是来受报,还愿,发愿的...

57.人的价值,不在寿命的长短,而在贡献的大小...

58.过去已成虚幻,未来尚是梦想,把握现在最重要...

59.不用牵挂过去,不必担心未来,踏实于现在,就与过去和未来同在...

60.智慧,不是知识,不是经验,不是思辩,而是超越自我中心的态度...

61.积极人生,谦虚满分;自我俞大,不安俞多...

62.上等人安心于道,中等人安心于事,下等人安心于名利物欲...

63.你是有那些身分的人,就应该做那些身分的事...

64.在安定和谐中,把握精彩的今天,走出新鲜的明天...

65.担心,是多余的折磨;用心,是安全的动力...

66.财富如流水,布施如挖井.进俞深,水俞多;布施的俞多,财富则俞大...

67.面对生活,要在{最好的准备,最坏的打算}...

68.只有还有一口呼吸在,就有无限的希望,就是最大的财富...

69.救苦救难的是菩萨,受苦受难的是大菩萨...



70.超越生老病苦三原则:活得快乐,病得健康,老得有希望...

71.超越死亡三原则:不要寻死,不要怕死,不要等死...

72.死亡不是喜事,也不是丧事,而是一件庄严佛事...

73.每一个孩子,都是帮助父母成长的小菩萨...

74.对青少年,要关心不要担心,要诱导不要控制,要商量不用权威...

75.受你的孩子,与其担心,不如祝福吧...

76.夫妻是伦理的关系,不是{论理}的关系...

77.现在所得的,是过去所造的,未来所得的,是现在所做的...

78.眼光,是偿的智慧;运气,是你的福德...

79.喜爱的就想占有,讨厌的就会排斥,患得患失,烦恼就来了...

80.经常少欲知足的人,才是无匮乏的富人...

81.心不平安是真正的苦,身体的病痛不一定是苦...

82.明知心不平安是苦事,就赶快以持念{南无观世音菩萨}来安心吧...

83.现在拥有的,就是最好的,拥有再多也无法满足,就等于是穷人...

84.不要用压抑来控制情绪,最好用观想,用佛号,用祈祷,来化解情绪...



幸福人间

85.好话大家说,好事大家做,好运大家转...

86.大家好说话,大家做好事,大家转好运...

87.每人每天多说一句好语,多做一件好事,所有小小的好,就会成为一个大大的好...

88.急须要做,正要人做的事,我来吧...

89.我和人和,心和口和,欢欢喜喜有幸福...

90.内和外和,因和缘各,平平安安真自在...

91.自求心安就有平安,关怀他人就有幸福...

92.人品等于财富,奉献等于积蓄...

93.奉献即是修行,安心即是成就...

94.拥有的多,不一定让人满足;拥有的少,不一定上人贫乏...

95.能不乱丢垃圾,随时清捡垃圾,都是做的功德...

96.好人不寂寞,善人最快乐,时时处处助人利己,时时处处你最幸福...

97.若希望人际关系相处得好,就要把心量放大,多接纳人,多包容人...

98.只要自己的心态改变,环境也会跟著改变,世界上没有绝对的好与坏...



99.人与人之间的相处之道,需要沟通,沟通不成则妥协,妥协不成时,你就原谅和容忍他吧...

100.大的要包容小的,小的要谅解大的...

101.以全心全力关怀家庭,用整体生命投入事业...

102.戒贪最好的方法,就是多布施,多奉献,多与人分享...

103.包容别人时,双方的问题就解决了...

104.学佛的人,有两在任务;庄严国土,成熟众生...

105.要做无底的垃圾桶,要学无尘的反射镜...

106.烦恼消归自心就有智慧,利益分享他人便是慈悲...

107.用惭愧心看自己,用感恩心看世界...

108.净化人心,少欲知足,净化社会,关怀他人...

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Tuesday, August 9, 2011

犀利人妻

ar Journal,
Today, finally completed watching 犀利人妻, this is a nice drama...


 can said 隋棠 and 温升豪 acted their roles well and of cos the supporting lead too... 朱芯仪, 王宥胜, 蔡淑臻, 胡盈祯, 李沛旭 even the kid 吴怡臻(阿宝) acted very well... I remember those scenes she asked her mum to be brave and her dad leave her to go Kao-Hsiung...

I really enjoyed the way 隋棠 acting as housewife... and the way she treated her husband and daughter.... a good mum and wife.... =) ....温升豪 very handsome with his office suit... too... , 朱芯仪 acted very well with her "Xiao San" role too... 胡盈祯 and 李沛旭 acted the couple very sweet... =)

from which day the tips I had learn alot too... the tips which I liked...

 - 婚姻就像是颗水饺。
- 婚姻是「退一步人去楼空」。
- 不被爱的那个,才是第三者。
- 比外遇更可恶的,是欺骗!
- 不要为了错过太阳而流泪。
- 生活是甜的?未來也是甜的?
- 三個人的關係,實在太擁擠了…

 and the songs for the drama too like - 林凡-重傷
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Monday, August 8, 2011

What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

10 July

You Are a Leader

Independent and dominant, you tend to be the alpha dog in most situations.
You're very confident, and hardly anything ever shakes you.
Mundane tasks tend to drain you - you prefer to be making great plans.
You are quite original. When people don't "get" you, it bothers you a lot.

Your strength: Your ability to gain respect

Your weakness: Caring too much what others think

Your power color: Orange-red

Your power symbol: Letter X

Your power month: October